When I was in the Army what feels like many years ago, someone once told me that the good thing about me was that, despite everything I'd been through, I never let it soften me and I never let it harden me. The truth is though, I have always been soft and, I think, I always will be. I've always been sensitive - chalk it up to trauma or temperment, it doesn't matter. I've always worn my heart on my sleeve. I cry when I'm sad, I sometimes lash out when I'm frustrated, and I sho
